I know I'm pushing you but I also know that we are similar in some ways, maybe not in others. I wouldn't have been supportive in that situation, I would have been waiting for a fail. It was a lose/lose for H.

Hopefully you are a bigger person than I was.

And I'm still learning.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss