Hi Mimi30, I just got the book you suggested, and will start reading the book tomorrow. Hopefully the book will give me some insights.
Hi Cadet, I already sent an e-mail to H asking him if he would consider giving an hour of his time with the new counsellor before I saw your response. I hope that this does not go against the DB rules. But, if he does not respond or says no to the session, I will still go on my own because I need it for myself regardless of what he does. I would really like for him to come because it would show me that part of him still wants to resolve our situation.
Hi littlegto,
I asked him multiple times if he had someone else because of the fact that he is gone , no intimacy etc.... I asked him and he kept saying no that there is no one else in the picture over and over again. I will take your advice and not have intense reactions because that's exactly what I did before I read the book. I have to admit, I am scared that there is someone else but will continue to read the forum and write. This is helping me a lot.
I went to a wedding this weekend, I thought it was going to be really hard with me crying and everything. I was not going to go but my girlfriends encouraged me to go with them. It made me think back on our wedding and how beautiful it was. How can they walk away from it all?
Thank you all for your support
Me 37 H 37 D9 D6 M9/ T12 ILYBINILWY 05/2013 Asked to S 06/13 Said he wants to S for sure 08/13 Said that he's looking for a place (Sept 17/13) No ring on his finger (Sept 19/13)