So for the most part things have been going good. H no longer seems to be in a depressed mood/state all the time. He appears to be much happier. We have been spending a lot more time together.
Same here with my W: Less depression. -It does make things a little easier for us.
Originally Posted By: chasingpavements
And of course he hasn't told me whether he wants to keep on with me, or separate I know these kind of things take time, but this is making me feel so anxious and upset. I am not very good at detaching or not thinking about everything all the time.
He can't tell you because he doesn't know himself. On the other hand, he's still there, right?
It's ok to think about "everything all the time", (I do) as long as you can be at peace with the way things are. Find a way to accept the new normal. Make changes if you need to. Live your life and enjoy it.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
I know these kind of things take time, but this is making me feel so anxious and upset. I am not very good at detaching or not thinking about everything all the time.