Tori, it is good to see that you are slowly moving through the process. I feel the same way, that it will take some time to completely detach from H. There are these memories that keep popping up, unexpectedly sometimes. And I feel sad. But, then I tell myself that I don’t need him to be happy. I lived without him before, and I can do it again.

I’m glad that you are staying active on this board. I agree with others here that your advice is invaluable.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state