Quote: I wonder what my response should be if he asks me and the boys over for this weekend? I have to admit that it's getting old, going over there and then getting treated this way, like I'm the enemy.
Cindy,
I think that you answered your own question about this weekend. He knows that you are eager to spend the day with him. What if you had other plans since he hasn't said anything to you yet about it? Do you think that would be something different than what you have done?
But by the same token you are in sorts the enemy. You did the most damaging thing you could have done to him and FILED for a divorce.
He is angry with you for doing it in the first place. But trust me he is relieved that the pressure of that is off. He just doesn't know how to express it. I think you mentioned that you guys were going to MC together. THAT is a big plus. Hopefully the MC can help you turn things around from this point.
Just stay strong. You are doing just fine even though it may not look it. Continue working on yourself.
