^^ I get the sense he is committing without committing as well, testing the waters. Leaving the possibility of repairing the marriage and leaving it all at the same time. Tough space to live in Turtle, but you seem to know what you want and what you need. smile

To all the strong, compassionate beautiful women on this board, you guys rock!

And guys? After all the growth, introspection, commitment and strength you have shown, your next relationships (whether they be with W pr someone else) are going to be the stuff women dream of wink