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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((Bug)))))))))))))))))))))))))

all your hard work is creating the space of awareness and the strength to be...

so proud of you Bug for being able to be present and not race ahead.. one of the hardest things is the lack of certainty in our Rs... but so is all of life isn't it?..

love you bug


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"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13
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bug - i am so happy for you.
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Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D






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bug that's great!

I would say wait until he has fully committed to the marriage to move over to the piecing forum..

.. and don't make my mistake and talk before you are both ready. I think my conversation with X on Wednesday scared the bejesus out of her.

I don't expect to hear from her for awhile and I'm officially in STFU mode. laugh


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D'ed: 8/12

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BUG!!!!!!!! I have the BIGGEST smile on my face for you!

You are a true inspiration to me.

You make me want to dig deeper and become a better person. Love you so much.

And like champagne too ;-) (how's that for a response to your playboy centerfold interview lol)


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Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home
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Good luck!

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M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds

"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
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Bug, happy for you and your new painting wink

Also I know all the emotions this brings, will bring and wish you love and strength. Living in the now is never easy, since we are conditioned by the past and prone to write off the mistakes we make today, because "of course, there's always tomorrow"

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smile smile smile smile smile


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Ummmmm he know sees what he's missing. I bet u look hot in a wet t shirt. If u weren't married, Madonna!!!!!


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Together 26 yrs
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D final 8/28/12

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bug, so happy for you in your present mode! Enjoy the nowness and I hope the journey forward will bring many more positive steps!
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M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.
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Congratulations Bug! Great news! Hope you're able to recover from SSM where you both get to a happy place.

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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015
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