Not sure I did this right, but here is my sitch from Midlife Crisis. Originally that's what I thought it was. After, reading and researching and taking it all in X is a WAS...
M: 49 H: 49 S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago) M: 21yrs BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months) D: 3/11/11 Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery X: engaged w/OW