UPDATE: Detaching Detaching Detaching...breathe and let it go.

I realize he's never coming back...I will focus on me and my NEW life and continue to pray good things for him.

Patience...we'll see. Working on GAL, 180's PMA's etc. Don't know where this is going to lead.

I want something more than him with OW...if it was MLC, I would be here to help him through it. He is NOT a MLC... he is a WAS. Acceptance is half the battle.

Now focus on ME... I've been waking up looking in mirror with a gift waiting for me to open...it's my new life.

Gonna send this thread over to the Surviving the Big D...maybe I can get some chats there.


M: 49 H: 49
S23 D24 (disabled from car accident 6 yrs ago)
M: 21yrs
BD: 1 month after D home from hospital (after 6 months)
D: 3/11/11
Moved: 10/11/11 to FL for SCI recovery
X: engaged w/OW