She was tested and doesn't seem to have hormonal issues. Very healthy, in fact became super fitnessed obsessed in January and was hand-in-glove with MLC. Lost a bunch of weight, new diet, etc. She looks great (although I thought she did before too, but now she does as well) and is happy with her new looks (about 25 lbs lighter, 12 down to a 6-8).
I think she knows, just doesn't care enough to change. Truth is, to answer your other question, it was never great after we got married (not just compared to my visions of what it could be, but compared to past girlfriends I had), but it kept getting gradually better. Just not fast enough. Then it stopped getting better. I think now, this is one of those things for her that she knows she needs to change, knows her marriage would be better, just doesn't do it. Like me having a bowl of ice cream at night even though I know it's bad for me and will keep me from losing weight. But, it is comfortable and easy.
Anyway, the fact that I can even focus on this, and a few other things we still need to improve is such a blessing. I feel like my head is above water again, even if I am still in the ocean...
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"
