Rh, your friends on here (I hope I am included as such) love to hear about how you are reconnecting with your h. And I know we all wish you well and are rooting you on.
I can understand that you are hesitant about doing so. Those are your feelings and I wouldnt think of negating them. But I do want you to understand that hearing stories such as yours keeps people going. It gives them hope.
And there is always hope. And to be able to give that to people is very powerful. Coming from someone as loving and open as you makes it so sweet.
I know for me, I love hearing that someone is happy. No matter what is going on in my life.
This forum is about helping others, making connections, celebrating the good stuff and being there for the bad.
So, we celebrate with you, just as we walked the journey with you.
And I am so very glad that you learned to be a person not defined by your marriage. That is so very important. It is what will allow you to have a marriage built by two people who have weathered the toughest of storms and who have decided that they want to continue on together.