Yes, it would give h the wrong impression if I was to seek out om. Kind of make all my talk about wanting the m...moot!

So no deal...I'll just have to hang on a little bit longer for h to come around.

Called him this am...to ask if he could help our sons with homework (they have 2 powerpoint presentations due tomorrow!!). h said ok so he'll be with the boys this afternoon helping out. I was sure to tell him I appreciated his help !

In the course of our convo, he mentioned what he'd been up to last night. Just volunteered the info! Hmmmm.

I'm thinking now that we no longer have that d hanging over, I'm going to start involving h in more of the boys activities. I feel as though h should get back into the swing of things with the boys at least. Some type of family type routine.

Cindy