I wrote a post for BF. it disappeared . Will rewrite as it was longer and am on phone lol.
KG. . Good to see you!! Kids don't know about the OWs. See son found out inadvertantly and wasn't happy. H and I say that we are dating other people to the kids but the kids have yet to meet anyone. Even MG who H saw for 9 months was not introduced.
H sleeps in my bed but I asked kids about it and said we are not together. They are good with it. If they were not be wouldn't be in my bed. On both our parts kids come first. Well at least now for h. Lol
Just had long text convo with H who wanted basically to let me know he is not ready yet. He is still working on him and needs space yet but loves the time we spend together. He may be stupid but is not ready. ( his own words) but wants to make sure I know this because hurting me would kill him. I said that he is not where I am and never may be but I was good with it. Also that he would be there no matter what when or why. How much time money or anything would not matter. And as a matter of fact our friendship meant more than his past two relationships because they ended because of our friendship and Hs refusal to give it up.
So that is the scoop. I am still at peace and still doing what I have set out for me We will see what happens when and if he has another gf. But today is all I worry about
. Will rewrite as it was longer and am on phone lol. 
. Good to see you!! Kids don't know about the OWs. See son found out inadvertantly and wasn't happy. H and I say that we are dating other people to the kids but the kids have yet to meet anyone. Even MG who H saw for 9 months was not introduced. 
