First thing's first. I understand you're hurting badly now, but you've got to get legal representation right now, today. If not, he and the OW will take everything from you. Get someone there who can help you get immediate support.

I know how hard it is, but you can't lay down now. You must protect yourself at all costs because he's not thinking about you at all and your well being. Please do so asap.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER