Having a lot of trouble detaching, it's just so alien now, seems like I'm repeating
my previous behaviour that led to me losing her. Am I not just reinforcing her opinion that I just don't care? Haven't chased for a couple of weeks, texts from her have slowed to one a week & only 1 meaningful phone call since this began. But I'll try to stick it out as it seems the only other option I have is to chase again


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13