Thank you Cadet. However, my husband came home today and told me in no uncertain terms that he wants a separation and divorce. He is not changing his mind. He says this has been on his mind for years!!!! And that he finally got the courage to stand up to me and for himself.
He then says, "I love you, but I don't think this working. Loving someone doesn't mean that you should stay with them right?"
His tone was kind, but no sure if he was placating me for the sake of the discussion. I did not get upset or irate. However, I did asked the question if he was seeing someone. Of course he said no. Yeah right!!! And then says why do I always assume that there is another women involved??? Because STUPID, you did it before!!!
I am not sure what to do, but I think I need advice. If not, I think I should begin agreeing with him on everything. He is in MLCer and he doesn't even realize it!!!
He is trying to regain his youth.. He is losing his hair, he gained weight and is now trying to lose, he is shopping at the teen stores for jeans!!! This is not my husband. He is crazy!!!
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Me: 44 Him: 51 Married: 9 years Together: 14 years
