Hi Ruby, I’m happy that you are having a good weekend. Good job leaving him with the picture of you in that dress. I was reading your recent updates and thought that you are following the suggestion I’ve read about in one of the electronic books I bought last year. There was a story about wife leaving her husband for another man. The author suggested to this men to have regular coffee dates with his wife and don’t mention OM at all, just be friendly and confident. The wife went through a few OMs during that time and all of them didn’t like the fact that she was still meeting and talking with her H, so they were all jealous and put lots of pressure on her. At the same time she could talk about anything with her H and he accepted her the way she was. So, the author says that they eventually reconciled. I just could not help but to see the parallel here with your story.
I think you are doing great. The only thing I would want for you is to be more mysterious sometimes. Maybe you are already doing it, but I don’t see much of it in your posts. Hope you have a great week ahead.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state