I am so glad those are your intentions because your advice has been very helpful to me and so many others.
I agree with Bug on building a R with ourselves. I think it is easy to forget that we need to nurture that just as much and if not more than our other R's. Its the building blocks for every other R in our lives.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home