No, it wasn't ideal. But your H saw your commitment by dropping the D, and was told what you're doing to save your marriage. I love the fact the MC then put everything into his lap - make him see what he has to do to save your marriage.
Like you've said, he's got a lot to think about now. Give him time, let him ponder. Remember how long it took you to decide to change, and imagine how tough it must be to have it thrown in your face.
Plus, things have been going well. This is nothing more than a speed bump - feels rocky, slows you down, but has to be gone over correctly.
