Cindy, What SOLUTIONS did your MC offer up to the both of you? Is your MC familiar with Michele and her teachings? I have asked these questions on a number of threads. If the MC is not familiar with DBing then perhaps you may wish to find one who is.
I am currently VERY disenchanted with C. due to the one we had not being a MC and doing nothing more than allowing us to vent the negatives in our lives, validating, and just letting us talk when we CLEARLY said that we had no communication skills. No solutions. None not one.
Please address this with your MC before your next session, and see how with goals and solution based information your R can possibly turn around.
