Hey sg, you are moving towards both detachment and forgiveness. It's not a straight line. Your black and white are showing.

It's OK to be angry, and you realize it now before you speak. Good progress.

The money is now hers, let it go. Forget about what she said about her brother, not your problem. Families are weird, you know that.

About your D, that's a tough one. What are you thinking when you look at it objectively?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss