Bea, like you, I am so bored with the same blame routine from xh. I simply no longer care. His latest text about being "disappointed" that he hasn't heard from S16 was annoying. I thought, poor you. I'm disappointed that you abandoned me and left me with two kids to raise on my own, that you have cost me thousands in attorneys fees, etc. I really don't know what he expected from me. Sympathy? A promise to make son contact him? I should have just ignored him.