I meet with a group of DBers once a month.. and it has been amazing. Even when we introduce a new member into the mix, it has the same effect.
For me, it is a feeling like we had known each other for years.
When you are here - you are truly going through he!!. You are hurting so bad and are so vulnerability and fragile..and these strangers just care about you.. without even knowing you.
A bond is created. There really is a special kind of love on these boards.
So meeting them in person doesn't change anything. It just makes it real. Real hugs vs. Virtual ones. Words of wisdom that now has a voice attached to it.
It is truly a blessing to meet the folks who help you through your journey. I would recommend it to anyone.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.