Still, for me sex=emotionally involvement, so 2 things will happen at once...I would have expectations that would not be met by cute guy and my feelings would progress quickly to more than just what they are now. Don't think cute guy would progress in the feelings dptmt in the same way. So yeah, sex (while it would be amazing, I think (based on the incredible kissing-ooo,la-la!) the emotional after-effects would NOT be worth it).
Turtle, my comments were just to make sure you knew where this might go and I'm confident you've thought a lot about it based on your responses, so go for it I wish we could sit down and chat over coffee (well it would be diet Dr. Pepper in my case because I hate coffee ) because I've been in an R for a few months that's a lot like yours with cute D'd guy. I can verbalize things much quicker than I can type them out because I can use my hands and facial expressions to communicate (yeah, I'm one of those people ). It's a very unusual R, I've never been in one like it before but from talking to others it's becoming more common these days as people abandon traditional R's in favor of something more flexible. Younger people in particular seem to think this is the wave of the future. No one has much hope in traditional marriage these days (with a 50% divorce rate why would they) and they're seeking other paths. Anyway, I wish you the best, you exude a lot of strength and confidence here and I really enjoy your posts!
I wish we could sit down and chat over coffee (well it would be diet Dr. Pepper in my case because I hate coffee 
) because I've been in an R for a few months that's a lot like yours with cute D'd guy. I can verbalize things much quicker than I can type them out because I can use my hands and facial expressions to communicate (yeah, I'm one of those people 
