Your H relationship w your kids has NOTHING to do w his R with you. The setting has changed so he's trying to alleviate guilt. Very simply.
But, it is GOOD for the kids to have a good R w their dad, so that makes me happy for them.
LittleGTO is so right. It is good for the kids to have a good R with their dad, however hard it is for us to be without them. My H usually only sees our son for a few hours on a Sunday, and he comes round to the house and they play computer games together (well, H plays, S watches). S13 has complained a few times about the fact that his dad doesn't talk to him much, but I keep encouraging him to see him whenever he can. No matter what happens between H and I, I still my son to have some kind of R with his dad.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
