better to love or be loved?

[JustStunned]

In the beginning I was devastated. I didn’t wash her pillowcase b/c her scent was still present; afterwards I washed it. I second the recommendation for The Journey From Abandonment to Healing.

I know this part is hard. The more you can view the D as breaking a business relationship the better you are likely to come out financially. I know how difficult it is to keep emotions in check and out of these negotiations. That was one of the reasons I retained an L.

In my State inheritance is not treated as community property until it becomes community property. Verbal agreements even those made with our Ls present were not binding. It was what was written and the Court had ruled on that each of us lives with.