SG, I will be blunt. So she wants to go to Key West. That is her business. She is divorced. She was done when she made her decision.

This is your week with your daughter. It is your choice how to spend it. Making a gift of it will not magically repair the relationship. Set a boundary here.

My X burned through her disposable income also. Some people choose to.

Make your choices about you and your daughter. Your X is keeping herself first.

As you assert more control over you and your life, making choices you wish to make, instead of responding to your X’s or requirements of the court you’ll find a bit more peace and heal a bit more. Chart your course in a positive manner, for you and your happiness. Keep your actions honorable so you can look in the mirror without shame.

BITS
Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill