Thanks Rosa for checking in on me. I'm working on my Master of Library Science and am taking 2 of my last 3 classes this semester.

One of those classes is in html and web page design, which the guy I went out with said he'd help me with, but I guess I'm on my own now. Oh well, I'm used to it at this point and I'm smart, so I'll figure it out.

I have so much going on in my own life that I don't have time for a guy right now unless he seems pretty amazing. I'm not ready to make any concessions on what I want at this point.

This whole week has been full of GALing. I spent two days at Megafest, a huge event hosted by Bishop TD Jakes and I got to see Joel Osteen as well. I met people from all over the world and it was very motivational.

I had my last day of work at the library on Thursday as well. It was somewhat sad because I really liked the people there, but it will be nice to sleep in past 6am and not have a 45 minute commute each way.

I'd made plans with xh yesterday to go see ss after I left church, but when I texted him to make sure they were home, they were over an hour away visiting cousins that had come into town. Apparently, me telling him that I'd text when I left church at 8 wasn't a "definite time" that I'd be over. He offered to stop by my apt on his way home, but I declined.

He got upset, saying that I really didn't want to see ss. I just told him that if he preferred to give me a definite time to see him, then give me a time on monday morning before ss was picked up and I'd be there then.

For 7 years xh said he could never make plans because he preferred to be spontaneous, so this is a change. I love plans, but this is driving me crazy because he'll apparently make plans with everyone else except me.

Xh said he'd call me if his pool plans ended early today, but I'm not holding my breath. Since he seems to prefer plans at this point, I think I'll stick with our Monday 10am meeting time.

Another thing I forgot to mention is that I texted him on Tues night while I was working. We had a pretty decent conversation, but he kept wanting to get me to commit to helping him pack when he moves in two months.

Interesting that on Monday night he was so willing to give up on our "friendship" because I wasn't texting him, but he plans to rely on me to move? I'll never figure him out.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13