You've been doing a GREAT job of working through the ups and downs and ins and outs, and have now got a pretty good feeling of what it takes to work through them. There will probably be more to come, but you're getting pretty good at making adjustments, and coming through each shining just a bit brighter each time!
You're doing great!!
JJ
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Well, you might be but the WINNING CINDY isn't. When it's time she calmly tells her H that she dismissed the D and doesn't make a big deal about it. If he reacts unfavorably, the WINNING CINDY just validates away, tells him he has every right to react like he is, but you did what you felt you had to do and you're comfortable with it.
Who knows, the way he's acting lately, he may just thank you and things then continue to go in the right direction.
So, just be calm and cool, in control Cindy and let the chips fall as they may....
It's so hard to wait on h's next move. I've been letting him make them all. Not calling him has been the hardest.
Just when I think he's not going to call me and invite me over...he does! And when I act like I don't want to come over or am too tired...he says that's ok, we can just hang out. Like he really wants me to be there...warts and all!
Only thing is, the MC has not been able to get him to return his calls so that he can confirm an appointment time for monday. That's when I'm going to tell h that I've dismissed the d.
I'm praying he takes it in a positive way. But hey the way that things have been going this week...h may beat me to the punch tonight over dinner and tell me to dismiss it.
