better to love or be loved?

[RosaLinda]

That physical attraction is a killer, WBW, isn't it?

D is a very scary prospect to me. I agree with IWonderToo that you should take it very seriously. And not trust him one inch. My H mentioned D for the first time in 4 years right after his 2-week PA with his EA (does that even make sense ) but asked me not to push him, to give him time to decide what HE wants to do. Do you live in a community property state? Your H doesn't seem very accommodating, do you think he would really take your kids for a week without a court order?

It's sort of funny/sad that he doesn't want to give you half of his account because you'd "use that $ with another man someday" Is that the inheritance you mentioned? Didn't he already agree to give you half of that? I hope he does right by you and his kids.

Hang in there WBW, it sounds like you are getting stronger!