@ JonF, my W has calmed down too since I've given her space and she is asking for things and saying thank you, but all of our conversation is still centered on the divorce and she has filed the paperwork. I asked her last week if she really wanted to be friends when this was over and what that meant to her, and she said "not much", since we had nothing in common according to her.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers
