Surprisingly, when he told me again this morning that his mind was made up and all he wants to talk about know is D, then I cried for a minute and wiped my tears. I got to work. I think I have let him use me as a human yo-yo.
So I am calling a locksmith, changing the locks on the house, and packing his stuff and putting them in boxes in the Garage. No more of me waiting for him to leave. If he wants to leave, I will help him.
Cadet, he didn't get anything from me other than encouraging words. But he now says that he is not sure if is happy as he should be. I am not playing second fiddle to anyone for the second and last time.
Enough is enough.
He will be mad when he comes home and finds that he is unable to enter. He may call me every name in the book. He may even call the police. I am just in shock. We spent a family vacation together in July, we celebrated our anniversary, and then 3 weeks ago, I get the "I am happy but I don't thinks I am as happy as I should be." I personally think that is a bunch of crap!
SO when he returns tonight, he will be upset, but we were suppose to talk this weekend, and he spent it at his best friends place. I know, do I think he is cheating...No, because I don't have that sinking feeling like before (then again, maybe I am off).
So right now. Just waiting for the blast!! But I cannot sit around any longer and be used as a yo-yo with him controlling everything.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
