You sound as HAPPY, CONFIDENT, & IN CONTROL as you have in some time. That of course is what the WINNING Cindy does, and then of course your R takes a turn for the better because you ACT in a manner that your WA can't help but notice. Not to mention you've freed him from the pressure he was once under, that helps as well.
If dismissing the D relieves more pressure "clouds" in your mind then do it. Your MC is right, if you pulling the D without telling him, sets him off, oh well....he can file if he wants. This way you send a message that you're comfortable with yourself enough to bring an end to something you initially filed.
Just continue to make the choices that give you the best chance to keep the momentum in your favor, thats good strategy..and it makes YOU FEEL GOOD too.
Its nice to see good things happening in your sitch.
As for tonight just be that bright, cheery, sexy, "everything is just great" you and enjoy your time with him.
