When he tells me about what is going on with his job, it seems that he is covering up what is going on there. 2 year ago as a part of his performance review, he was told he was "at the bottom of the barrel" of all the managers. He has been under a lot of pressure this year at work.
I agree with Snodderly and it is not surprising that during his MLC he got bad performance reviews in his job.
I bet he got bad performance reviews from his wife too!
The four pillars of an MLC are Body, Spouse, Job and God.
More than likely they fail at all of these.
Glad you posted and it sounds like you are doing much better. That is great!