My situation is really weird right now, and I have been up and down the rollercoaster the last few days - but the FIRST time W actually would talk to me was when I backed way off. I did zero communication for like 4 days in a row, when we had been texting and calling all day almost non-stop for weeks. Even after just four days, she was much more receptive, and she even mentioned that she felt like it was a fire hose before, and the space and time let her think.