By Jove I think he's got it smile <- Quote from My Fair Lady! Well done 2old, a positive post for a change smile Try not to think about your W wanting a D though. My H still hasn't initiated anything else. I think they are less likely to initiate D if you leave them alone.
I do feel with your W she needs to be left alone for a long while. Get on with your own life and take every contact that your W has with you as a positive. I guarantee that if you do this, your W may not initiate D.
I don't know how it works in your country, but even if she does initiate D, you can always refuse.
You're a Christian right? Well if you do get served D papers then tell her that as a Christian you do not believe in D.
Keep up the good work smile


H47 me48
T22 M21
S20 - Got high functioning autism
3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her
11/2000 H moves back home
2/4/13 H moves out
H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!