By Jove I think he's got it <- Quote from My Fair Lady! Well done 2old, a positive post for a change Try not to think about your W wanting a D though. My H still hasn't initiated anything else. I think they are less likely to initiate D if you leave them alone. I do feel with your W she needs to be left alone for a long while. Get on with your own life and take every contact that your W has with you as a positive. I guarantee that if you do this, your W may not initiate D. I don't know how it works in your country, but even if she does initiate D, you can always refuse. You're a Christian right? Well if you do get served D papers then tell her that as a Christian you do not believe in D. Keep up the good work
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!