Wow, H just called to invite me over tonight! I'm on the right track.
Had my mc appt. He encouraged me to do the right thing not the emotional thing. He said I have only filed for d in response to my emotional self and that it was not the right thing to do. He said I should dismiss d and not worry about h's emotions in this. That would be my boundary...dismissing the d cause it is the right thing to do, not in response to my or h's feelings.
Wow, the mc is so clever. It is hard to divorce the emotion in all this though...and that is my problem. I respond quickly with emotion and rarely stop to think out my course of action.
So the MC said do the right thing, dismiss the d, don't let this be on your conscience, give h the responsibility of carrying out the d....if that is what he wants.
I feel so happy today! My h is responding to my growing up emotionally and the decision about what the right thing to do here is made.
