Hope I can help. I was once a "cute D guy". After my 1st W cheated I became the WAH she wanted me back but I left. And I didn't trust women at all. I slept with as many as I could and most being M. In severely degradated M. In most cases I respected boundaries too because there were so many women at one time I never got too focused on one. Im not proud that I did what I did, but it happened and just wanted to share with u. I don't know what it is about your situation but I really wanna see your family succeed.