completelylost, thank you for advice. I do know I am playing with fire and that I will get burned. It is at the very forefront of my mind. I dont know if I am still trying to save my M.

I do have my boundaries with cute guy. We hung out last night and had lots of fun playing board games for stakes--mainly kisses. Kissing definitely was more heated but he was respected of my boundaries so it was good.

I am clear cute guy may run interference with my ability to see clearly with H, but so far not. H is going to need A LOT of time to come out of his fog from "break up" with OW.

ruby- You may be exactly right about letting the chips fall so the decsion is out of my hands. I will really think about that!

THanks for the advice!


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.