Bea, I am just stunned by the recent developments in your stitch. (I will post on your thread.) The fact that you haven't had a major emotional backslide is a testament to your level of healing and who you are today.
Why do these MLCers hang on? I just don't get it. Our xh's ran for the hills with OW leaving us to raise our boys. I can't get mine to settle our D yet he has said that he wants it final ASAP. Here's a funny quirk about my xh - everyday when he came home he would take off his shoes at the front door. He would always place them half on the entry tile and half on the living room carpet. He would also leave cabinet and room doors partially open. When I pointed this out to him he admitted that he had a hard time committing one way or the other. So, it's no wonder that I'm in the situation that I'm in. Someone is going to have to sit on xh to get him to sign a settlement. Frankly, I'm surprised that he pushed the D since limbo seems to be more comfortable for him.
