I know I should give her space but I can't help feeling like I should do something. I keep reading all of these quotes online about divorce not solving problems, and I feel like forwarding them to her and saying "look what you're doing!" but I fear it wouldn't help anything and I will wind up looking stupid.
A lot of people in my family and my friends (and even our old MC) are telling me she is emotionally immature and not making a reasonable decision. She has always been impulsive with things and not considerate of other's feelings and once she starts doing something she has really good follow-through. Part of me feels like I have to let this run its course and maybe she will wake up one day and think "big mistake".
She has been good so far though with dividing assets fairly and not taking anything of mine. She just definitely has her interests first and doesn't seem to trust me at all.
T 10 years, M 4 years, both 28 years old 7/3/2013 - W wanted D, we attempted to reconcile 7/20/2013 - discovered W's EA, attempted to reconcile 8/24/2013 - W told me she wanted D, filed papers
