So I am trying to keep a PMA and it is somewhat successful...Still fight off feelings though but it seems to be easing. I think that one thing which is helping me is something I think to be truth with my sitch. The fact W doesn't want to speak is the idea she thinks by not seeing or talking about the issues with me they will just disappear which is not what happens. I'm told this is all to common when someone walks away and shuts down. Maybe this is why DBing has it's effects in some cases on WAS'? Because if the LBS shuts down it is likely the WAS will at some point want/need to initiate contact. This would explain why the lack of contact from her in some ways isnt a bad thing. What I am led to believe now however given this info is that a D is more likely with someone who leaves and shuts down. Regardless of this news, I still have no plans on iniating anymore contact. It would seem pointless anyways...
PMA< PMA< I keep ringing this through my head....lol
