I looked at some of Ali suddenly's early posts, and yes, there are many similarities. I must go back and read some more, I could certainly do with some encouragement today.
I have had two calls from the estate agent already this morning (early sun am), can't they just leave me alone?? I ignored them and took the dog out... much better idea.
These MLC'ers seem to push you into one thing and then pull back when what they "wanted" starts to take shape, leaving you with the fall out.
I am angry with him today. For all manner of reasons, the least of which is him leaving.
I had hoped that this far in I would feel better about this, and sometimes I do (mainly when I am left alone, peacefully, to just do my own thing). When I start getting calls about the house and emails from him (that say "must catch up" etc and nothing ever happens) and people poking around my home, I don't feel better at all!
However, I do think you are right about them not working things out while there is a connection, but disconnecting them isn't as easy as it sounds either.