I have lost friends through this whole thing, and I'm not blaming my H at all. The point is; I THOUGHT that these friends were GOOD friends, until this crisis came up. Then I found out they are not a friend at all. In total; I woke up and found out 3 people who I thought were friends are not!
But on the up side; I have found some wonderful friends that stand by me.
One of those so called friends went as far as to tell me not to talk to her until I divorced H! She got her wish! I no longer talk to her! Another spread lies about me and him, he was 75 and I was 43 at the time, need I say more; he will never be a friend again! And the last one, she tried to hook me up to an englishman, a friend of hers who needed a green card. And also her lonely XH! SHe still calls me and I have stopped over there, but our friendship will never be the same!
Sorry, I'm rambling! LOL What I want to say is, this will be the time when you find out who you're true friends are. She is one that you can no longer talk to about your R with H. If she was my friend, she won't be for long! Like JJ said, "who needs friends, when you have enemies"!
I'd say, don't let what she said bother you, more than likely its a lie! And she sounds like she wants your M to fall apart!
