H has boys tonight. Before coming to hang out at the house and then take the boys H called and asked if I had plans tonight. I hesitated but truthfully answered "no."
He then asked if wanted to take S9 along with other boys out to dinner as a family. (We always take boys out for dinner for their birthdays.) SO, I said "yes."
Met him later to eat. He said during dinner that we should do more things together as a family. I said "it feels fake to me," because it does-- we are not a family in the same way. He said he's not at all uncomfortable.
When we left he asked what I was doing. I said I didn't know/ didn't have any plans. We drove along (separately) and he pulled up next to me at a stop and asked why I was going a certain way (as it wasn't the way home).
I laughed and said "it really isn't any of your business, but I'm going to the grocery store (true). He said, "You are just trying to make me worry!" Actually, he's right.
Interesting that he's always been concerned about my social life, yet I've asked nothing of his.
Last night cute guy and I texted quite a while. He had been drinking a lot & we flirted a bit. I did NOT go over to his house, but likely will tonight since I don't have the boys and am looking forward to hanging out with him (he's good company and I enjoy the flirting).
We revisited my boundaries, so I think he's crystal clear (think). It's all about having a good time together. Period.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
