I'm so shocked. A long time friend just tried to make me unsure about dismissing my d. She tried to tell me that she saw my h at a restaurant with another woman.
There is not way since my h gets out of work at 7pm...would take 30 minutes to get to that particular restaurant, then they'd have to order and then he'd need to be gone by 8:15pm to get to his apartment in time to make his call to me at 8:45p. He'd need exactly 30 minutes to get to his apartment from the restaurant. I have h on my caller id that night at exactly 8:43pm and again at 9:14pm when I picked up and talked to him. Caller id showed his apartment number.
I'm devastated to think that my long time friend would so want to convince me to d h by saying this.
I'll no longer be discussing my m with this person.\ from now on!!!! She made me depressed and doubting my h! At least I'm strong enough now not to give into my urge right now to call him, interogate him, or spy on him...cause that is what I felt like when she told me her LIE!
Though I guess she could have thought she saw someone like him. But how could she mistake him...she's been at our house so frequently over the last 8 years!!!