Is there's anything left of everything we had...

[Not Quitting]

I know I shouldn't worry about my son. He's been really mature about this whole thing. We ran into H and OW a few weeks ago and my son asked about who the blonde was with his dad. When I said I didn't know he eventually seemed to forget the whole thing. Now if he was to ask me directly if his dad has a GF then I won't lie, but in the meantime I'm just letting it go and I'm not volunteering the information.

Had an interesting convo with H's beer buddy earlier today. I had offered to drive his D11 to school in the mornings this year as she starts at the same school as my son, and my son will be walking her home afterwards and we were making the final arrangements. Anyway, beer buddy wanted to know if H had grown up yet. Strange comment coming from someone who recently divorced his wife, and has been having a PA for over two years. The difference in sitches is that he didn't want to save his marriage - there are some serious underlying issues there and I know the cops have been called by him over her actions - but he really thinks my H is being very stupid for walking away from our M. My response was simply that I hadn't really talked to H in a few weeks so I don't know what's going on in his head or his life. Beer buddy said that he still doesn't know what H sees in OW. I just shrugged and said "his choice".