Not New to This Anymore

[steveh27]

Subguy - thanks for your input. I know I wont be a jerk doing it but the actions will speak loudly. Its hard to do this with compassion and be subtle. Yes I know the D is imminent. Like u said I need to dig deep and determine what I want.

Im not a person who would leave her struggling ... as my kids will endure that also. I want to give enough to do something but not enough to do nothing ... if that makes sense. I feel right now she will be getting more than whats fair. But my fair and her fair and the courts fair will certainly differ.