Appreciate all the input - a lot of it is accurate. I think sometimes my grumpiness comes out on here.
However, W just told me she was willing to dismiss the divorce, and instead of dissolution, we are gonna wait three weeks, and then talk and see where we are. (She is moving from our friend's house to an apartment, and will be moved by then)
What a weird week this has been - going from fast-tracking divorce, and saying "We're done", cursing, nastiness, blaming me; to now, talking, some joking, and not ranting about divorce.
She just said she didn't know what to think, but still thought maybe dissolution would be better, but we'd take three weeks to talk through things...
