Wife finally mentioned that she sees big changes in me with the kids and toward her. She said she sees my "Father of the Year" and "Husband of the Year" efforts.

I'm trying to just continue with my DBing and 180's. Hopefully, she'll be attracted to it at some point. For now she's still focused on OM.

Actually out on a date with him right now! It's hard to take, but I've gotta let her do what she wants right now. Right?

Any feedback is appreciated. Suggestions?


Vince B
M=10 yrs T=13 yrs
M45 / H 44
2 Boys 5 & 8
D Day: 7/16/13